help me ask this girl out

Um, Xavier? Not very comfortable situation on a...

On a... date?

Aye right

IndyJones wrote:

Um, Xavier? Not very comfortable situation on a...

On what?

The growing up thing.

But still, it happens, ANYWAYS, I know you don't like her anymore but please, in summer, take her roller skating or something like a minature date to get to know her better?

Anyways, Xavier, I was looking at your earlier post saying "don't be a stalker"... Were you think of me or that pyscho woman who's after your uncle?

Maybe I was... she is SOOO weird!!! I had to help my uncle find a place to hide and the whole time and he kept walking into the fields so she couldn't find him!! And she kept asking me where he was and I just said he must be out fishing!! She is soooo weird...

Yeah, she is... that would be kind of freaky...

Yeah, she is!! And if you're going to one of the school dances for middle school, don't hesitate to ask her. Just make sure you're already at least sort of gf & bf. Secondly, if you're going to ask her on a summer date... just keep this in mind: Two hours in the sun makes a car really humid inside. And third, don't show off SOOO much!! It's hard to explain but trust me, don't show off to an extant. Fourth, when school starts again, don't go get a girl friend in the first two weeks. At least settle in first. That's really all I've got now... hope it helps for anyone!

Oh, wait a minute, I thought you were still talking about the creepy lady in Missouri... I guess not. And I agree with Xavier. DON'T LISTEN TO TV SHOWS. They also give you the wrong idea. Don't try to break the ice, just be normal and look at her like you want to be her friend right then and there, and later down the road, maybe moving on to girl friend.

Just make sure that when ever you're asking her on a 'date' or to go do something, make sure you're already some what friends.

Mm-hm, and friends who won't make fun of you if it doesn't turn out well or remind you of it continuasly (spelling?) throughout your life.

im an expert on love so when your in a joke finish it of with a bit of love. then ask her out!

sorry for answering you to late, but what me and my friends do is ask her out through one of your friends who is willing to do it. I ask a girl to do it for me and my frieds, which is probably better and is. She is very willing to do it and she does. So ask one of your friends that is a girl to ask her out for you. Good Luck!

And just thought of mroe things, Where deoderant. And use hair gel that is axe brand. The axe hair gel makes it so ur hair isnt all hard like other brands. Trust me, i have it. And it makes you look good. take a shower in the morning, so you ask her fresh.

WELL WRITE HER A LOVE POEM AND DON'T TELL HER IT IS FROM YOU AND PUT ON IT FROM YOUR SECRET ADMIRER

cp snoopdog wrote:

sorry for answering you to late, but what me and my friends do is ask her out through one of your friends who is willing to do it. I ask a girl to do it for me and my frieds, which is probably better and is. She is very willing to do it and she does. So ask one of your friends that is a girl to ask her out for you. Good Luck!

Pathetic. Seriously, that works when you're like in fourth grade but in from sixth up thisn't the 'best' technique. If you have any guts, you'll ask her youund not take easy way out.

hello, peoples leave it to me and all the girls

Um, FYI, I GREATLY DISLIKE AXE!!! And if I was a girl, and you were to date me, I would leave in a heartbeat or try to bear it. I've had bad expeirences... I just don't like colonge or perfume.

Wolf... You're looking at the #1 'hotty' in school. I know every tip, every sign a girl likes, where to go on your first date, etc... If you want more info, PM me and we can talk

Xavier wrote:

cp snoopdog wrote:

sorry for answering you to late, but what me and my friends do is ask her out through one of your friends who is willing to do it. I ask a girl to do it for me and my frieds, which is probably better and is. She is very willing to do it and she does. So ask one of your friends that is a girl to ask her out for you. Good Luck!

Pathetic. Seriously, that works when you're like in fourth grade but in from sixth up thisn't the 'best' technique. If you have any guts, you'll ask her youund not take easy way out.

Guess why he asked me? because he was shy to go up to her and ask her,

Dude, understand this, if you can't talk with the girl yourself, than it's not a healthy relationship. And come too soon, it'll show through. It's just awkward and uncomfortable if you're too shy to just talk with her.

If you don't think you can ask her because you get queasy, or nervous, or weak in the knees, and what not, just GO DO IT ANYWAYS!! It'll make the relationship easier all around.

Seriously, how can having your little personal "messangers" be better or in your opinion "the best". It's just not healthy (mentally/emotionally wise).

cp snoopdog, you are NOT the professional here, and neither am I but I know that asking her yourself is much better. It won't be easy at that moment in time but it makes her feel more comfortable later on if and when you start dating.

It may seem like using "messangers" will make it easier if she denies you, let me tell you something; it doesn't. It'll embarass you more long term wise and the people in on it will also may feel embarassment and awkwardness. Plus, if you plan it too much and then BOOM!, she doesn't like you then it's all like ,"Now what?".

Well, it's late at the moment as I type this so I'll continue later... whatever...

what xaiver said, and if she goes in a group alot and socializes, you are gonna be embarresd for awhile sometimes.

Now, if I were a girl (check my profile), I would defintly NOT go out with some one who tries to impress me by showing off. I would prefer the sweet kind, not those abnoxious jerks that think they're charming.